REASONS WHY SEX SHOULD WAIT BEFORE MARRIAGE.
1. Sex is a powerful force that can destroy if not used properly
Like
atomic power, sex is the most powerful creative force given to man.
When atomic power is used correctly it can create boundless energy; when
it is used in the wrong way it destroys life. Sex is the same kind of
powerful force. Sex is a gift from God to give us the greatest pleasure,
to help in creating a deep companionship with one's spouse and for
procreation of the next generation. But if you play with this powerful
force outside the bounds of marriage, it destroys you and those close to
you.
2. intimate activity for young people arrests their psychological, social and academic development.
Studies show that when young people engage in premarital sex, their
academic performance declines and their social relationships with family
and friends deteriorate. This is because adolescents are too immature
to deal with the explosive sex drive and it tends to dominate their
life.
3. The majority of women cannot enjoy sex outside of the bonds of marriage.
The development of a fulfilling sex life needs the security and peace
of the marriage bond. Premarital sex usually takes place sneaking around
in hidden places dealing with the fear of being caught, the fear of
pregnancy and feelings of guilt. All these (worrisome) factors undermine
pleasure in premarital sex, most especially for women.
4. Virginity
is to be given to the most important person in your life, the person
you committed yourself to stay with forever in marriage Your
virginity is the most precious thing you have to give to your spouse.
Once you lose it, nothing in the world can bring it back. Don't lose
something so precious in a thoughtless way.
5. Those who engage
in premarital sex run a high risk of contracting one of the many
venereal diseases rampant today, as well as losing their fertility. Not
just AIDS, but other common disfiguring diseases like herpes have no
cure.
6. Some venereal diseases have no symptoms and many couples
discover many years later that they became infertile because of these
diseases. Infertility experts estimate that 80% of today's infertility
is due to venereal diseases contracted before they married.
7.
The best and only method that guarantees 100% against AIDS and other
sexually transmitted diseases is to wait for marriage to have sex and
maintain fidelity in your marriage.
8. Premarital sex breaks the
10 Commandments given by God. The 10 Commandments are given to man by
God to make man happy. They are not outdated and they are not
restrictive. If we follow these laws, we can create happy and prosperous
lives. If we don't follow them, we will pay a heavy price in divorce,
disease, abortions, illegitimate children and loneliness. Modern men
make a big mistake when they think that they can break these eternal
laws and not suffer consequences.
9. Premarital sex runs the risk
of conceiving illegitimate children. Numerous scientific studies show
that the children of single mothers suffer psychologically and are less
successful socially and academically than children from intact families.
Above all, children need both their father and their mother. It is
wrong to risk having children who will never have their father's love,
protection and care.
10. If you date and you don't have sex, you
can forget about that relationship when you stop dating. But if you have
sex with those you date and then break up, the nature of intimate
involvement creates strong, often unpleasant memories for your whole
life. Every relationship you break up where you had intimate relations
is like a mini-divorce. The psychological difficulties of these
mini-divorces does damage to your character. Later, when you are married
and go to bed with your beloved spouse, these unpleasant memories will
accompany you.
http://www.unification.net/tfv/tenreasons.html
@BILL GATES
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